Lately I've been thinking about control -- how I like to be in control, how my life feels like it's out of control, how I wish I could control others. And then as I walked home with the sun caressing my face it hit me. My need for control isn't really about control, it's about trust. It's about me not trusting in God's plan for me. It's about me not trusting what's in my best interest will happen. It's about my lack of faith. It's the belief in order for my life to be the way I want it to be I need to control not only myself but everything and everyone around me. The truth is I can't control anything. By trying to do so I only create frustration for myself and others. By trying to do so I basically beat my head against the wall for fun.
It's hard though. It's hard to give up that need to control. It's hard to surrender, to trust in something else. And yet as I write this shadows dance across my computer screen. The wind blows outside and the wind chimes tinkle. How could I possibly think I know better than the force that created everything that is in existence? How could I possibly think my little human brain could comprehend what is best for me and everyone around me?
It's so hard to trust but when I look at the evidence it seems silly not to trust in a power greater than myself. When I really examine my life I see I am completely taken care of. I see how I have a roof over my head and food in my belly. I reflect on how I moved to the Bay area without a plan and it's all been ok. I've been here for a full six months without a job and I've survived. More than survived, I've thrived. Yes, I've moved roughly eight times, but I have ALWAYS had somewhere to stay. Whenever I needed money it came, either from housesitting or freelancing or a refund check from the government. I notice when I do let go, when I do trust and give up my need for control how much easier my life is. How full it becomes, how expansive, how joyful. It's hard to give up that control and learn to trust but it's worth it. It's worth an easier life, a freer life, a more joyful life.
So it is my firm belief not only is another world possible, it's probable.