Darlin' Do Not Fear What You Don't Really Know

I didn't think so many song lyrics would make their way into my blog but here they are! On Friday I dance walked to Brett Dennen's song "Darlin' do not fear what you don't really know" and was struck by how appropriate it is right now.

Give it a listen:

The parts I love the most are, "Darlin' do not fear what you don't really know because it won't last, your worries will pass, all your troubles they don't stand a chance," and, "Sometimes your path is marked in the sky, sometimes it fails to fit in between the lines." Sing it Brett!

I am in two emotional places right now. In one, I am relieved because my worries have passed for the time being. I'm living in a huge house on the outskirts of Washington, D.C. with friends, there is no loud bass music blaring, no yippy dogs, no obnoxious neighbors, and for the first time in a long while I feel financially healthy because I'm not paying rent. Woo! Yes! Life is good! I have escaped from the bowels of hell that has been my life since August of 2011 and I've started taking a tincture to reset my nervous system (that's the real miracle right there).

Brett's other song lyric about how sometimes your path is marked in the sky and sometimes it fails to fit in between the lines is apt because, well, who would have thunk I'd be back on the East Coast? Certainly not me. I don't plan on being here long, term but it's certainly nice as a rest stop (ba-dum ching).

The other emotional state I'm in is anxious, not so much about the future, but rather wading into things I know nothing about. If you want to see me clam up tighter than a barnacle clinging to a ship, throw something completely new at me and ask me to forge ahead. For instance, sales and marketing of my book. You want me to do what now? Please excuse me while I flap my arms around and hyperventilate. Brett is asking me to not fear what I don't really know. My amazing life coach also reminded me of some tools to use when my inner barnacle makes an appearance:

• Bring out the warrior in me to activate my courageous side
• Remember everything is an expression of an infinite loving consciousness, and thus I don't need to attach to any outcomes. Let go and let God, as it were.
• Have compassion for myself. Honor my feelings, acknowledge I'm scared, and let myself know it's OK.
• Ask for divine presence, whether that's angels, God, a mysterious force, a feeling, whatever, to help me feel I'm not so alone
• Contemplate, "What's the worst that can happen?"

I feel better already! I don't need to fear the unknown because I have a toolkit to help with it all. And maybe you have a few tools to add. Let me know in the comments.

I dream of a world where we are in the ease and flow of life. A world where we dismantle our fears in a healthy, loving way. A world where we express joy and recognize our worries will pass, our troubles don't stand a chance. A world where we don't fear what we don't really know.

Another world is not only possible, it's probable.